Dear straight people...

...what should you say when someone comes out to you?Read more

How to survive a hate crime

The 11th of June, 2016, was a Saturday night like any other at gay nightclub Pulse in Orlando. Last orders had been called at the bar as the crowd danced on to the final few songs. At the same time, Omar Mateen walked into the club with an assault rifle and opened fire. He killed 49 people and wounded 53 others in one of the most horrific LGBT hate crimes in history. You might want to think differently but violence towards the LGBT community is alive and well.Read more

How to build your confidence

Are you as socially and sexually confident as you’d like? Not many gay men would answer “yes’’ to that question, but confidence is something we all need.Read more

How to survive super gonorrhoea

BREAKING NEWS: Super gonorrhoea is on the loose. Run for your lives.Read more

7 things every 'rural gay' should know about London

Here are a few things I learned when I made the move from a small city in southern Ireland to the bright lights of London.Read more

5 ways to improve your mental health

How important is it to look after your mental health? Very, actually. The way you value yourself, what you think about yourself and how happy you are as a person have a knock-on effect on all aspects of your life.Read more

7 Simple dates

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7 ways to get a date on Grindr

But what if you’re looking for something with a bit more substance and a bit less dick? But not having much luck, eh? Is it really Grindr that’s to blame, or is it that ‘just looking for friends but here’s my dick’ picture you’ve been sending to every man and his dog...Read more

5 ways to 'get over him'

Getting dumped is horrible, but there are things you can do to make it a bit easier.Read more

What advice would you give your younger gay self?

What if you could write a letter to your younger self? What advice would you give him?Read more